Narcissists are incapable of truly loving someone else. While they may seem to care about you, their love is actually self-serving and shallow. Here are five reasons why narcissists can’t love.
1. They’re only interested in themselves.
Narcissists are only concerned with their own needs and desires. They have no interest in the feelings or welfare of others. So, it’s impossible for them to love someone else selflessly.
2. They’re incapable of empathy.
Narcissists lack the ability to understand or feel empathy for others. They can’t put themselves in someone else’s shoes and see things from their perspective. This means they can’t truly understand what it means to love someone else.
3. They’re always in control.
Narcissists need to be in control of all aspects of their lives in order to feel powerful. When they’re not in control, they can feel vulnerable and insecure. This makes it difficult for them to give and receive love.
4. They’re often abusive.
Narcissists are often abusive towards others, especially those who they perceive as being weaker or less powerful. This type of abuse often leads to feelings of betrayal and devastation.
5. They see love as a means to manipulate and control others.
Narcissists see love as a tool that they can use to manipulate and control others. They see it as a way to gain power and control over their victims.
Narcissists are not there with you to find love or because of love you are just prey for them, that’s why they need you.
Great story, I want to ask a question, my husband is a narcissist, I want to take him to a therapist but he doesn’t want to go, what can I do? Please guide.
Hi Ammna thanks for writing.
You can not force him ,unfortunately but you can keep trying.
I don’t know despite of this issue how are your marriage relationship.
But if it is fine then try to talk him.