Attracting love into your life is an internal process. It’s not something that you can buy. In fact, there is no quick-fix solution to attracting love. However, there are some warning signs that you’re not ready to attract love. Once you know what they are, you can work on them. This will help you attract the love you are looking for.
1. You’re Still Masturbating over Your Ex
When you’re still masturbating over your ex, it’s a sign that you’re not ready to attract love. You’re still feeling the pain of a broken relationship. There’s no more incredible feeling than being able to move on from someone.
But if you’re still masturbating over him/her, it’s a clear sign that you’re not ready to move on. Why? Because you’re still in pain. You’re not ready to close that chapter of your life and start a new one. You’re not ready to attract someone new.
You’re still in the honeymoon phase with your ex, and you’re not ready to attract love. You don’t want to date, you don’t want to go out, and you don’t want to meet anyone new. But I want you to know that the sooner you move on, the sooner you will be able to attract your next love — if you’re ready for a new relationship.
2. You’re Still Clinging to the Hopes of What Could Be
If you’re still hanging onto the hope that you’ll find love when the timing is right, you might want to rethink your strategy.
Whether you’re waiting for the right time to come along or you’re waiting for the right partner, it’s not a good idea to wait around for love to find you.
It’s likely that as you wait, you’ll end up missing out on opportunities.
3. The wrong mindset
For some people, it’s easy to attract love, but, it’s more challenging for others. It doesn’t matter what your age is; anyone can have a hard time attracting love.
Too many people are worried about being perfect for the other person. They are too focused on what they need to change. When you think you’re not good enough, it’s hard to attract love.
You want to make sure you’re becoming a better person, but it’s not attractive when you change yourself too much. It’s a delicate balance. Your life is a work in progress. You’re going to make mistakes. You’re going to be imperfect. Focus on good things about yourself.
Instead of being in your way, learn to love yourself. When you feel good about yourself, that’s attractive to others. It’s not about needing to be perfect. It’s about being the best version of yourself.
4. Being too picky
If you are too picky when looking for love, you are likely to end up alone and lonely. There is a difference between not settling for anything less than the best person for you and being too picky. You must realize that the best person for you may not be a supermodel or the most successful millionaire.
They are not always the most popular or the most celebrated. Love is a matter of the heart, and you should choose the person who makes you happy and not just the person who meets all of your basic requirements. You should not be worried that if you do not find the perfect person, you will be alone and lonely.
You should focus on being happy, and if the perfect person comes along, that’s great. If not, you should be comfortable being alone and enjoy the time you have to yourself.
5. Inability to receive love
There are different types of love we can attract in our lives. These types of love are available to us at all times, but our ability to receive them depends on our state of being.
The main point to understand is that we are, at any given moment, in one of three states of being: we are either in a higher state of being, in a lower state of being, or we are in balance.
If we are in a lower state of being, we have certain blocks, which can only be removed by receiving higher states of being. We can also be in a higher state of being, but we can create blocks preventing us from receiving unconditional love if we are fearful.
We are in balance when we are neither in a lower state of being nor a higher state of being. If we are in a lower state of being, the universe will allow us to move into a higher state of being.
However, we cannot force ourselves to move into a higher state of being, nor can we move into a higher state of being by simply willing it. We can only do so by allowing ourselves to receive unconditional love.
6. You’re Holding onto Fear of What Could Go Wrong
When you’re not ready for love, you may be holding onto fear of what could go wrong or what could go wrong. Or, you may be afraid that you’re not enough to attract love.
You may struggle with self-doubt and self-worth. The thought that you might not be good for anyone or good enough for anyone can be overwhelming.
You may even be wondering if anyone could ever love you. It’s ok to feel these things, but if you’re holding onto fear of not being good enough, it could be a sign that you’re not ready to attract love.
It’s all too easy to fall victim to the idea that you will only attract love into your life once you feel that you are ready. But sometimes, we need to stop, take a step back and look at the signs we are sending out to the universe to see what we need to change to attract love into our life.
If you’re not sure about your readiness to attract love, this blog post may have given you some new insights into the signs you’re sending out to the universe.