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Why do Narcissists Love to Build Relationships?

Zeeshan Chughtai
Last updated: 2022/03/16 at 8:57 AM
Zeeshan Chughtai
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Narcissists are social creatures. They thrive on being around people and find it challenging to be alone for long periods. Because they love interacting with others, narcissists often have a large network of friends and acquaintances.

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1۔ They require fuel 24 hours a day.2۔ Narcissists are lovers of relationships.3۔ They disguise themselves to draw other people.4۔ They are always the focus and not you.5۔ They set traps.6۔ They’ve hidden an agenda.Last words

They put their best foot forward and act like the most caring and loving people around. And for a while, things may be really good in your relationship with them.

They can be great partners if you don’t mind being second to their narcissistic needs.

If you are in a relationship with a Narcissist, they will never allow you to quit it. They don’t want you; they want prey. They need to fulfill their dark needs. You are not on their lists. Your needs, emotions, and feelings are not their concern.

They are the center of their self-created world. You can move around that circle, but you can not get to the center. Unfortunately, if you try to get to the center, you hurt and humiliate yourself. Here are six reasons why do Narcissists love to build relationships:

1۔ They require fuel 24 hours a day.

Their fake appearance will be worthless when no one is there to compliment or praise their work. Narcissists require that Narcissistic supply fuel their egos and keep their fake image alive.

People who are healthy view relationships as an opportunity to know people and form positive bonds; narcissists see relationships differently.

2۔ Narcissists are lovers of relationships.

Narcissists are attracted to relationships because they require people. They want people who show them affection and love.

However, they also require individuals to manipulate, harm and abuse. Therefore, the formation and maintenance of relationships are a matter of life and death for Narcissists.

3۔ They disguise themselves to draw other people.

Narcissists have an image or personality that people get a hold of and trust. This prevents us from realizing the narcissists as they are. This means that when they lie or manipulate us, we can’t recognize its reality.

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The deception is brutal to resist, and the deceit is real, but it is the only way they can gain into our world, to access our emotions and feelings.

4۔ They are always the focus and not you.

Narcissists develop relationships solely to fulfill their selfish needs. It’s always about what they can gain from the other person or what they could provide for them.

Narcissists don’t care about maintaining honest relationships because their relationships are built on lies. They make up their own stories about their identity and what they stand for. They do not reveal true motives because you will walk away.

5۔ They set traps.

We must remember that the Narcissist is merely an incarnation of a more sinister creature that wants to murder, steal and destroy all in its way. The Narcissist will only fulfill the darkest wishes of the entity.

There is no place for empathy; there is no place for compassion, just an urge to inflict suffering. Without relationships, many Narcissists won’t have the chance to accomplish this.

Involving yourself in relationships with Narcissists can be an unwitting trap. There is no way to know for sure what it seems, and for a lot of, they are an hour or two later when they realize the mess they’ve gotten themselves into.

6۔ They’ve hidden an agenda.

Narcissists have people around them to control, hurt, and use them to their advantage. Inflicting pain on others can make the Narcissist satisfied. Every tear you shed for them, each frown you create, will make them feel better.

If the Narcissist harms another person, they feed the darkness within their souls. The happiness they experience is not theirs but one of the entities enthralled by every battle and argument that the Narcissist is involved in. The view of pain is what they love to see.

Last words

The narcissist personality type is characterized by traits, most notably an inflated sense of self-importance, an over-inflated ego, and a lack of empathy.

This article has discussed the six main reasons narcissists seek out relationships and what these relationships are like for both parties involved. I hope this article has been helpful!

TAGGED: Narcissist, Relationships
Zeeshan Chughtai February 5, 2022
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