8 Alarming Signs Of A Sexual Narcissist Partner

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Fahim Chughtai

Being in a sexual relationship with a narcissist can be a complicated and confusing thing. Sexual Narcissists can’t see outside of themselves and are only concerned about their own pleasure. If you are in a relationship with the narcissist, you will soon find no compromise in the bedroom and that your desires are barely considered.

What is a sexual narcissist?

A sexual narcissist is someone who is addicted to sex and uses it to fulfill their self-worth. They are highly sexual and are likely to have one or more partners. They can be addicted to sex and masturbation. They are likely to have sexual addictions. They are likely to lie about sex and may exaggerate sexual exploits.

According to Healthline:

“A key difference lies in the fact that people with sexual narcissism generally believe they have a right to sex, especially within the context of a romantic relationship.”

They are often dishonest and will use sex to get what they want. They are likely to be more sexually active than their partners and often have extramarital affairs. They are likely to be aggressive and controlling in their sexual relationships.

 They are likely to be highly manipulative and may use sex to make up for a weakness they see in themselves. They are likely to be jealous and may have a sexual orientation toward one gender over another. They are likely to see themselves as sexually irresistible.

Signs of a Sexual Narcissist

Here are a few signs that your partner might be a sexual narcissist.

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1. Sexual Narcissists are very seductive

Narcissists are not just all talk. They are, without fail, the most seductive people you will ever meet. It’s like they have a secret superpower that only comes out when you’re alone with them.

You will feel like you’re at the top of the world when you’re with a narcissist because, of course, you’re in a relationship with the sexiest person on the planet.

 They will make you feel like you’re the only person in the world who matters. Narcissists are masters at making you feel like you’re the only person who gets them.

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They will build you up into something that you’re not and make you feel like you don’t deserve anyone better than them. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, they will make you feel like an ungrateful monster if you’re ever unhappy with anything that they do.

They are great at making you feel like you’re the rude one and making you feel like you’re just not good enough. In reality, they are the rude ones and the narcissists.

2. Sexual Narcissists are very attractive

 The sexual narcissist is someone who is obsessed with sex, who is not afraid to use his or her sexuality to get what they want, and who is highly confident in their ability to seduce others.

Sex is a weapon they use to get what they want, including attention and power.

Sexual narcissists are confident in their ability to attract others and manipulate them. They are attracted to people they think they can easily manipulate, such as insecure ones.

3. Sexual Narcissists are very charming

If you are in a relationship with a sexual narcissist, you may be headed for heartbreak. They have a fantastic ability to charm and seduce, but they always place their desires above yours.

They are not interested in your well-being, but they are very interested in your sexuality. You can be their friend or even their spouse, but you will never be their partner.

Your value to them is determined by your sexual availability and willingness to subjugate your needs to theirs.

4. Sexual Narcissists are very persistent

A sexual narcissist does not take “no” for an answer. If you try to say “no” to sex or refuse to have sex with them or decide you do not want to have sex with them, then they will continue to attempt to convince you otherwise.

They will try everything from begging to the silent treatment to make you “give in.” They will even threaten to break up with you or leave you if you will not agree to have sex with them or if you have sex with them and then refuse to have sex with them again.

5. Sexual Narcissists behave violently during sex

Narcissism is not just a state of mind but a state of being, and when it comes to sexual narcissists, being means living to fulfill the needs of their ego. They are not necessarily psychopaths in the clinical sense, but they share some chilling traits.

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 Narcissistic individuals are manipulative, and they are prone to occasional violent fits of rage that may take the form of physical, verbal, or sexual abuse. One of the most common traits of sexual narcissists is sexual predators.

 They are not concerned about getting consent from their sexual partners and are more concerned about their sexual needs. They are not afraid to use force to get what they want and often disregard their sexual partners’ feelings. They can become violent during sex, especially if their partners do not respond the way they want them to.

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6. Sexual Narcissists ignore you after sex

Sometimes, people with high sex drives don’t have time to develop a real relationship. That’s what makes a sexual narcissist so dangerous. They have sex on the brain, and they’re willing to do anything to make it happen.

They’ll ignore you after sex, refuse to commit, and even sabotage your other relationships just to fulfill their sexual needs.

They’re selfish, and they don’t care who they hurt. If you’re in a relationship with a sexual narcissist, they’ll use you. If you’re on the dating scene, they’ll use you at first, then discard you when they’re done.

 They’re charming, and they’ll make you feel like you’re their everything. But don’t be fooled. Sexual narcissists are only in it for themselves. They’re not interested in forming a natural bond with you.

 If you try to call them out on their bad behavior, they’ll lie about it. Instead of trying to make your relationship work, you should get out as soon as possible.

7. Sexual Narcissists have an obsession with sex

A sexual narcissist’s sexual addiction stems from the need to control others and keep them constantly in their presence. They will use sex to reach their egoistic goals and often devalue their sexual partners afterward or even shame them for having slept with them.

They are often sex addicts, with their addiction stemming from the need to prove their sexual prowess constantly.

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8. Sexual Narcissists lack empathy for partners

If a person knows that their partner is unhappy but does nothing about it, what does that say about them? Narcissists are often in relationships for their benefit, and if their partner is upset or in a bad mood, it could bring down their high.

It doesn’t matter if the partner is in pain or has a reason to be upset; the narcissist will not sympathize with them.

Conclusion

Sexual narcissism is a relationship between a predator and its prey. Instead of being abused, you may find yourself being objectified, debased, and humiliated. The sexual narcissist leads you on with the promise of a hot, steamy, sexual relationship, but they are just using you behind the scenes.

Sexual narcissists are all around us. They actively use sex to get what they want, be it money, power, fame, or even love. They are highly focused on their sexual desires, with little regard for their consequences on others.

 They may be promiscuous and have multiple sexual relationships. They may also use sex to manipulate others and get what they want. They are often selfish and see others as only a tool to fulfill their sexual desires.

They do not care about the emotional needs of others, nor do they care about the consequences of their actions. They will lie, cheat, blackmail, and manipulate to get what they want. They will also attempt to control the sexual choices of others. If you have been involved with a sexual narcissist, it can be very confusing to determine if you have been with one.

You can leave this sexual relationship with a narcissist and start enjoying your life again.

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